Cult.

Building a cult or falling into one is surprisingly easy in our quest for answers. The human desperation for certainty makes us vulnerable to anyone claiming to possess the truth with even a hint of confidence.

It often begins by targeting the most desperate individuals, gradually subjecting them to brainwashing. This process instills a false sense of security, boosting their confidence, which can transform into arrogance. This arrogance convinces followers that their truth is the only truth, and everyone else is misguided. In extreme cases, this can lead to the formation of a full-fledged cult.

You might believe you’re immune, thinking, “I know my truth, and no one can change that.” However, if you trace the origins of your beliefs, you’ll find they weren’t inherent; they were handed down or acquired. Seeking answers and security isn’t wrong, but the danger lies in how this security can breed insecurity. People can become combative, defensive, and even violent when their sense of security is challenged.

Language plays a role in this. Often, we speak as if our perspective is the absolute truth. I’ve noticed this in myself, and I consciously add qualifiers like “I think,” “In my opinion,” or “For me” during discussions. It’s a small adjustment but helps me acknowledge the subjectivity of my views.

The idea of others teaching philosophy or ethics raises concerns for me. While interpreting these subjects is valid, imparting someone else’s life views as universal truth doesn’t sit well. I prefer living by my own rules, thoughts, and beliefs. Being the only ‘me’ on this planet, it’s natural to have a unique belief system.

In essence, while seeking answers is human, we should remain mindful of the fine line between certainty and dogma.